| "It takes only seven seconds for us to judge another person when we first meet them," says clinical psychologist Linda Blair, the Daily Mail reported. Here is an expert's guide to passing the seven-second test: |
英国《每日邮报》消息，临床心理学家琳达•布莱尔认为，我们和别人初次见面时，他们给我们留下的印象在一开始的七秒钟就已经确定了。下面我们提供一些专家建议帮助大家度过7秒钟大关： |
| ※ Take a minute before you meet other people. Check your appearance and breathe out gently to remove tension. Turn your phone off or to silent. Smile! It's the perfect way to establish rapport. Hold your bag in your left hand so that your right is free for handshakes. |
※ 在和别人见面之前花上一分钟，整理下自己的仪表，平缓地呼气以消除紧张感。别忘了把手机关闭或调成静音状态。微笑！这是建立和谐关系的最佳途径。记得左手拿包，腾出右手来随时准备和别人握手。 |
| ※ Use open gestures rather than folding your arms or crossing your legs. Give an occasional compliment - "I like your dress" or whatever - but don't be insincere or exaggerate it. Dress for the occasion - polished shoes, and easy on the perfume or cologne. |
※ 采用开放的姿态，不要双臂交叉抱于胸前，也不要双腿交叉。适时地赞美别人，比如说“我喜欢你这样的打扮”等等，说的时候要真诚，不要过于夸张。记得让你的着装适合当天的场合，把鞋子擦亮，不要喷过多的香水。
（China.org.cn） |
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