Twelve years of separation couldn't change the mind of a woman
determined to marry her boyfriend despite his life sentence in a
prison in northeast China's Jilin Province.
The 32-year-old woman, Xiao Yan, applied to the prison
authorities to marry Da Zhi, 31, (not their real names). The
Changchun Prison, where he is serving his sentence for robbing a
taxi-driver, finally approved the marriage last week. It was
thought to be the first time a prisoner in Jilin has got
married.
It is understood that Da Zhi's sentence has been shortened for
his good performance and he will be released in September next
year.
"Xiao Yan sent me six letters, and I was deeply moved by her
sincerity," said Gao Ping, director of the prison. "Though Da Zhi
was deprived of his political rights, he still had the right to
marry according to the Law of Marriage."
The couple have seen each other regularly over the years. They
were not allowed to spend their wedding night together.
"We haven't found any record in the province of people in prison
registering for marriage, but based on the Law of Marriage, Da
Zhi's good performance behind bars and Xiao Yan's 12 years of
persistence led to us finally approving the marriage."
Many local citizens witnessed the marriage registration on
Friday at the Changchun Marriage Registration Office. Prison
officers accompanied Xiao Yan and Da Zhi. Da Zhi's parents and
other relatives also attended the wedding ceremony.
The two young people fell in love in 1993, when Da Zhi was the
owner of a stationery store and Xiao Yan was a store assistant on
the other side of the road.
Their lives were to drastically change two months later when Da
Zhi was arrested for robbing a taxi driver. He received a life
sentence in June 1995.
Xiao Yan felt her world collapsing.
"No one knows how much I have suffered all these years; all my
relatives thought I was crazy for having this idea of marrying
him," Xiao Yan said.
"But I couldn't forget all the good times we spent together. I
knew I still loved him although he was in prison, so I decided to
wait for him, no matter what."
Da Zhi said: "When I knew that Xiao Yan was still waiting for me
after all these years, I felt very excited. I swear that I will
take care of her for the rest of my life when I am allowed to leave
prison."
"I really couldn't believe my ears when the guards told me that
officials had approved our marriage. Now I am the happiest man in
the world."
(China Daily August 29, 2006)